See your relationship from both sides.
Answer separately. Reveal together. Then talk about what stands out.
About 8–12 minutes each. The optional Curiosity section adds about 5 minutes. You can skip any question or whole optional section.
We’ll create one private shared link for both of you. Do it at the same time, or one after another if you’re using the same device—whatever works for you. Results become available after both partners submit. The session expires 14 days after it is created.
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Review your answers
You can go back and change anything. Once you submit, your answers will be part of the shared comparison.
You're done.
Your answers are submitted. Waiting for your partner to finish. This page checks automatically.
Now you get to compare notes.
You don't need to talk about everything. Start with what feels important, surprising, or worth understanding better.
Counts only areas both of you describe positively — not every matching answer.